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【喇賽】女兒不一定要嫁

文章greymoon » 週五 10月 09, 2009 1:38 am

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說的也是........ 結什麼婚呀!!

過30歲的朋友.別擔心.這時還沒嫁代表你們是有能力的女人.
要她快樂不一定要嫁


女兒五歲,決定讓她上一所收費很高的幼稚園。身為父親的他,感到十分欣慰。

常常拿著照片,跟我們講女兒有多麼聰明、可愛。

同事們問他:「從小照顧得這麼好,又這麼認真栽培,難不成你想要她以後當女總統啊?」

他語重心長地說:「那倒不必,如果她真的很傑出,我希望她能夠獨立生活,不要嫁。

經營一個幸福的家庭多麼不容易,女主人和男主人雙方要付出許多心血。有幾個男人願意這麼配合女人,營造一個幸福家庭?如果,我的女兒很傑出,勢必沒有辦法被限制在一個傳統婚姻的框架中,
一旦結婚,丈夫又不是很上進、很能包容,注定會過得不幸福。」

他倒是講中了兩個重點:
1.【上進的男人不見得能夠包容一個和他一樣優秀的女人】
2.【而不上進的男人,就算有再大的包容力,又怎麼能夠讓女人幸福呢?】


我寧願她安心地去發展自己的夢想,多交幾個男朋友,甚至有固定的性伴侶。
想永遠住家裡,我一定很歡迎。想一個人搬出去住,我也會支持她。
總之,我要她活得很快樂。一個人生活,快樂可以由自己主宰。


他很慎重地和大家分享內心真正的想法。

那次聊天以後,同事們的見解不一,有人認為:
他太寵愛女兒了,寵愛到近乎想霸占她的地步。

也有人覺得:兒孫自有兒孫福,他實在想得太多。

我個人倒是認為,他的講法裡有幾個突破性的觀念,
值得男性朋友深深思考:


第一、當你愛上一個女人時;是否能尊重她的想法及發展, 並且全力支持?

第二、迎娶一個心愛女人回來;是否能在事先安排好幫助她適應新環境的準備?

第三、你的愛及你家人對你所愛的支持;是否一致?

不論男性對上述問題的答案是什麼?!

對一位優秀的女性來說:『擁有一位疼愛自己、永遠不會逼女兒結婚的老爸,絕對比嫁一個不尊重女性的老公,要來得幸福得多』。


上述所言實在是字字珠璣啊 !!
我想這也是大部分的現代女性懼怕婚姻的原因吧!

不過,我相信, 只要彼此有心願意共同努力 !
珍惜與經營..... 幸福也不是那麼遙遠的事情.....

所以, 單身的朋友們,請不要因身邊的朋友一個個步入婚姻而為自己心急! 慎選一位適合自己的人才是最重要的!
身旁已有個他的你, 也請好好珍惜得來不易的幸福喔 !!
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Re: 【喇賽】女兒不一定要嫁

文章mutom » 週五 10月 09, 2009 9:10 am

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